Friends...

There are friends and then there are friends..just their type changes, but u can find them anywhere..always beside you, behind you, besotting you...but they are there...always. you just cant run away from them. even a loner finds a friend in his loneliness. so you cant expect to live without any friend. but the thing is which type of friend do you have. I will try to decipher types of friends on the basis of my friends (the way they have behaved in last one month or so).

1.I am you, you are me - they are fastest of friend, though i don't believe in them much as i tends to get bored too easily with too much of anyone. but Mr.C and Mr. R falls in this category. always there with me(though Ms S is taking up my share of time from R :) )...almost everything is shared between us..almost...none of us like to share our emotions though...too private...and thats what i like there...nobody tries to encroach too much upon anyone. I would have added some more people in this list , but after feb, they are out of this list.

2.Differential friendship - Ms. A, S ,S (sorry, no pun intended :) )& M are in this category. these type of friends are always there to help you, listen to you, care about you..but when they need a friend, they just take a break into solitude...weep, cringe, curse..but wont share their problems. they think they are superman, able to fathom everything of their own and can come out of any pit, life has put them into. i felt like a good integral part of their life..at least if not essential but an important one. but i was wrong. If i talk to them, i am afraid , i may upset them (by interfering too much)and may lose them. but if i don't talk to them, then eventually i will lose them..so there's one irony i need to sort out.

3. Fun buddies - An, Sh fall into this category.we are always there for each other to accompany one another in the need of fun time. we don't carry any emotional baggage or get too emotional anywhere..just fun , plain fun...be it ice-cream sojourns, filling up when u r actually waiting for someone else, or for more obvious movie time...anything fun.

4.Thnx-Orkut friends - these are those friends who were lost during the passage of time but orkut has made it possible to meet them again. Aa,She, Ma and some more friends are in this list. i recently met 3 friends after 9long years , and it was so wonderful. i really treasure those moments.

i like "fun buddies" the most..they are gr8 ppl to live life with. no problems anytime. keep rocking An and Sh...and i treasure no. 4 type friends..thnx for coming back again, friends.