Sheer coincidence or destiny...
Sometimes i just ponder why i met someone whom i was never supposed to meet ,but i believe that whatever happens, happens for a reason. i still dont know the reason, but i gonna tell u how i met two of my very good friends Aditi and Stephanie(listed alphabetically, so no need to fight ;))...why hav i chosen only these two beautiful ladies...bcoz i think my meeting with them was more than a coincidence and right now they are having huge impact on my life.
In my first year in college, i was one day late for my registration.on second day i was allotted an entry no.(roll nos., for the uninitiated) that was far away from my civil mates' entry no.(for civil guys ,entry no starts from 2002001 to 2002065 or so)...and i was allotted 2002522. i always sulked at this entry no. as i was always grouped with other deptt guys in labs and tutorial grps.i missed my civil friends in my first year due to this entry no.
now circa 2005-06 aug-dec semester, here comes this french girl;),Stephanie, through student exchange program. it was my 7th sem - my environment lab. i am last person on attendance sheet in grp3. so when stef joined our group, her entry no. was next to me...and when sub grps were made she was clubbed with me and one more french guy(who was just after stef in attendance sheet, not in any other sense:)). So thats how our friendhsip began...and still going strong. i tried to teach her how to make fraud reading ,but she wont budge; i also tried my level best to teach her how to copy a lab report, but again she was the goddess of honesty herself in front of me. during this report making period, she would just sit in front of comp and we(i and shailendra) would just play solitaire on other computer chatting with her. it was fun. but now she has adopted herself very well with india and indians.(she calls it ADAPTATION) ;)
(and im still amused at my first day mistake, and am still waiting what lies ahead in store for me, lets se....thts what life is...unpredictable)
As for Aditi , here goes the story -- we moved into new neighbourhood when i was a little kid; and there we had sis-bro duo called Aditi and Karan. karan was of my age and aditi was two yrs older. so we all grew up together...more like a big family ...then we shifted ur base. and aditi got married and moved to States. so karan told me one day that Aditi was asking abt me...we were very much like sister-brother. and he told me that she is probably on orkut. thus, i made my orkut account and looked for her. i didnt knew her last name(surname she got after marriage)...so i zeroed in on Aditi, living in chicago. but that turns out to be this lovely lady, ADITI. so, i accidentally got hold of such a good friend.
in conclusion, i still dont know whether its a coincidence or just plain destiny which was waiting to happen with its seeds sown in my past. or maybe both. hey ladies, would u mind telling me what have u got in store for me:)
and as usual i dont know why have i written this another incoherent, confusing and useless blog...( i am whistling and amused at wasting ur time again...btw i never forced anyone to read my blogs, did i?)
Sometimes i just ponder why i met someone whom i was never supposed to meet ,but i believe that whatever happens, happens for a reason. i still dont know the reason, but i gonna tell u how i met two of my very good friends Aditi and Stephanie(listed alphabetically, so no need to fight ;))...why hav i chosen only these two beautiful ladies...bcoz i think my meeting with them was more than a coincidence and right now they are having huge impact on my life.
In my first year in college, i was one day late for my registration.on second day i was allotted an entry no.(roll nos., for the uninitiated) that was far away from my civil mates' entry no.(for civil guys ,entry no starts from 2002001 to 2002065 or so)...and i was allotted 2002522. i always sulked at this entry no. as i was always grouped with other deptt guys in labs and tutorial grps.i missed my civil friends in my first year due to this entry no.
now circa 2005-06 aug-dec semester, here comes this french girl;),Stephanie, through student exchange program. it was my 7th sem - my environment lab. i am last person on attendance sheet in grp3. so when stef joined our group, her entry no. was next to me...and when sub grps were made she was clubbed with me and one more french guy(who was just after stef in attendance sheet, not in any other sense:)). So thats how our friendhsip began...and still going strong. i tried to teach her how to make fraud reading ,but she wont budge; i also tried my level best to teach her how to copy a lab report, but again she was the goddess of honesty herself in front of me. during this report making period, she would just sit in front of comp and we(i and shailendra) would just play solitaire on other computer chatting with her. it was fun. but now she has adopted herself very well with india and indians.(she calls it ADAPTATION) ;)
(and im still amused at my first day mistake, and am still waiting what lies ahead in store for me, lets se....thts what life is...unpredictable)
As for Aditi , here goes the story -- we moved into new neighbourhood when i was a little kid; and there we had sis-bro duo called Aditi and Karan. karan was of my age and aditi was two yrs older. so we all grew up together...more like a big family ...then we shifted ur base. and aditi got married and moved to States. so karan told me one day that Aditi was asking abt me...we were very much like sister-brother. and he told me that she is probably on orkut. thus, i made my orkut account and looked for her. i didnt knew her last name(surname she got after marriage)...so i zeroed in on Aditi, living in chicago. but that turns out to be this lovely lady, ADITI. so, i accidentally got hold of such a good friend.
in conclusion, i still dont know whether its a coincidence or just plain destiny which was waiting to happen with its seeds sown in my past. or maybe both. hey ladies, would u mind telling me what have u got in store for me:)
and as usual i dont know why have i written this another incoherent, confusing and useless blog...( i am whistling and amused at wasting ur time again...btw i never forced anyone to read my blogs, did i?)
But these coincidences dont seem like they caused the friendship.. they inherently might have led the way.
ReplyDeleteI think if you are meant to be friends you find a way that is what is important.. the how of it becomes unimportant
@aditi
ReplyDeleteim very much interested in 'why' of these two friendships...lets see.
Why should there be a "why" to a relationship? This sounds as if you believe that Fate has made big (ok, let's stay modest) plans for us. No, as said Aditi, we made the best of a situation which came upon us. We've all fallen into 'coincidental' situations, we don't always exploit this. I'm not friends with all my classmates from IIT, for ex.!
ReplyDeleteHey, what DID you do to start the friendship? ;)
@fireangel
ReplyDeleteu r not friends with all of ur classmates...thts what im wondering at...why me(no, dont take it in wrong sense, i love ur company more than anything else...thts for sure...)..is there any motive or rather big or modest plans planned for us?
and wat DID i do to start the friendship - thts what im saying, i did nothing, it just happened, all by itself as if we were acting upon some fore written script.
but i truly admire and relish ur friendship... thnx for being there.
and btw i already stated tht this blog is a bullshit...so why r u discussing so much ;)
I dont think there should be a why either.. relationships... friendships.. should be approached to from the heart not the head
ReplyDelete@aditi
ReplyDeletei fully agree but there should be some head also involved :)
and try decoding the actions of god(or whatever u call it)...its so amusing and a really gud time pass(see how much time both of u have invested on this useless topic...where no one knows what lies next)...
now after being rebuked so much...i want to know one thing...should i take off this blog entry?