TRUST....and the losing of it
Its festive season right now, and mehandi is killing me ...at this weekend at home, i had to prepare my meals myself, as my mother and sis, both had applied mehandi first on head and then on hands , the very next day.they volunteered but i was too touchy to allow them to cook just hrs after applying mehandi.(i am trying to improve myself on this topic). things were not too good on personal front either.
TRUST...
difference of opinion between me and a friend of mine has led to loss of trust between us. my friend dont trust me anymore, but i never doubted and will never lose my trust in my friend. I think i am too 'brutally honest' , thus i always land up in soup. if i would have decided not to warn that friend of trusting someone too much and too easily, everything would have been rosy still now. some friends told me to clear up things with that friend , but im the poorest convincer of my thoughts to anyone..it looks as if no-one seems to see my logic ever...so, i have said sorry, and dared not to clarify much. but i want to say that i am not a Bragger.
Mr. P, my school friend, visited me this friday. after a very gud dinner , we ended up having some altercations. He accused me of inteferring in his life by always coming between him and the gals he gets interested in. and this accusation was too much for me, but i managed my anger and didnt say anything and just listened to his facts.but i think i have now met him for the last time. maybe on the surface, whatever he said was right. but dont u have to go deeper to understand some things. i never showed any interest in his gals, Ms. M being one of them; other than just trying to be a gud friend to them. maybe i went too far showing my friendship. i have to improve myself on this front most improtantly...and most urgently(i already got some warning on this front from angel, but earlier i could not grasp it)
so within a span of a week, i have lost much of my credibility. so no more going-out-of the-way friendships and no more recommendations to anyone. i know only aditi, angel and maybe rakhi would be reading this...and u r most nicest of friends i have got. i dont bear any grudge against you whatsoever...but i just needed to vent my feelings and things happening in my life...its all fine with me. dont worry.
TRUST me...Believe me, I am always wrong :)
TRUST...
difference of opinion between me and a friend of mine has led to loss of trust between us. my friend dont trust me anymore, but i never doubted and will never lose my trust in my friend. I think i am too 'brutally honest' , thus i always land up in soup. if i would have decided not to warn that friend of trusting someone too much and too easily, everything would have been rosy still now. some friends told me to clear up things with that friend , but im the poorest convincer of my thoughts to anyone..it looks as if no-one seems to see my logic ever...so, i have said sorry, and dared not to clarify much. but i want to say that i am not a Bragger.
Mr. P, my school friend, visited me this friday. after a very gud dinner , we ended up having some altercations. He accused me of inteferring in his life by always coming between him and the gals he gets interested in. and this accusation was too much for me, but i managed my anger and didnt say anything and just listened to his facts.but i think i have now met him for the last time. maybe on the surface, whatever he said was right. but dont u have to go deeper to understand some things. i never showed any interest in his gals, Ms. M being one of them; other than just trying to be a gud friend to them. maybe i went too far showing my friendship. i have to improve myself on this front most improtantly...and most urgently(i already got some warning on this front from angel, but earlier i could not grasp it)
so within a span of a week, i have lost much of my credibility. so no more going-out-of the-way friendships and no more recommendations to anyone. i know only aditi, angel and maybe rakhi would be reading this...and u r most nicest of friends i have got. i dont bear any grudge against you whatsoever...but i just needed to vent my feelings and things happening in my life...its all fine with me. dont worry.
TRUST me...Believe me, I am always wrong :)
Sometimes, even though you believe that what you are doing is right, or if you see it as simply helping your friend, but perhaps too much, it is best to let them discover things and their faults by themselves... Stick to what they want you to see, and avoid being overprotective! that'd be my advice for you, take it for what it's worth! :)
ReplyDeleteAnd then, those who don't get it, who don't realize how kind and caring and faithful you are, those cannot be helped!!! ;)
Happy cooking :D
ReplyDeletebut ladies wud never trust you in this department!
Man... if u wanted the writings in white, leave it in white. Sometimes, u shouldn't always try to plz everybdy, u know... Do keep ur convictions, and don't bend ur will too much, Nare...
ReplyDeleteTake care.
2introvert
ReplyDeleteim too sure tht they wont trust u ever..leave alone cooking
@anon
u r stef, right??
im tired of my habit of trying to plz everyone...but i get pleasure too :) ...but will try to keep my convictions from now on